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Simple ways of coping with stress

SIMPLE WAYS OF COPING WITH STRESS 

Modern life is full of demands, deadlines and frustrations.  Stress has become a way of life for many people. Stress is simply a reaction to a stimulus that disturbs our physical or mental equilibrium.  It describes how our bodies respond to the demands placed on them. Our bodies may respond physically, emotionally or psychologically. The demands or (stressors) may be external such as work and relationships, or internal such as thoughts about ourselves and expectations we place upon ourselves.  Stress is not always bad.A little bit of stress, known as “acute stress,” can be exciting—it keeps us active and alert. But long-term, or “chronic stress,” can have detrimental effects on health. We can protect ourselves by recognizing the signs and symptoms of stress and taking steps to reduce its harmful effects. 

Why do we experience stress?

When we are under stress our bodies produce a chemical called adrenaline. This prepares the body for what is known as ‘fight or flight ‘response. The body is ready to fight if it is faced with real physical danger or run away from the danger or stand and fight. There is no immediate danger to ourselves when we feel stressed but the adrenaline is still released into the blood stream and gears us up for immediate action. It stimulates the heart to beat faster and re-directs blood to the brain, heart and muscle. As the blood is rapidly pumped around the body, our blood pressure rises. It causes the liver to release sugar and fat into the blood stream and gives us instant energy.

Causes of Stress

• Job: overworking, colleagues, meeting deadlines
• Family changes: birth, death, marriage, divorce, relationship breakdown
• Family Life: relationship problems, children, elderly relatives, financial worries
• Environment: noise, pollution, overcrowding, bad working conditions, relocation
• Nutrition: unbalanced diet, too much caffeine, excessive alcohol/tobacco
• Social factors: unemployment, racism, bullying, discrimination

Symptoms of Stress

If we have too much stress, we feel distressed and may develop a number of symptoms or stress indicators. There may be some warning signs, such as: 

Cognitive Symptoms Memory problems Inability to concentrate Poor judgment Seeing only the negative Anxious or racing thoughts Constant worrying   Physical Symptoms Aches and pains Diarrhea or constipation Nausea, dizziness Chest pain, rapid heartbeat Loss of sex drive Frequent colds

Emotional Symptoms Moodiness Irritability or short temper Agitation, inability to relax Feeling overwhelmed Sense of loneliness and isolation Depression or general unhappiness  Behavioral Symptoms Eating more or less Sleeping too much or too little Isolating yourself from others Procrastination Using alcohol, cigarettes, or drugs to relax Nervous habits (e.g. nail biting, pacing)

We begin to experience other indicators of stress as the stress continues e.g.

• Irritability/impatience
• Headaches/backache
• Fatigue/tiredness
• Tearfulness
• Forgetfulness
• Social withdrawal
• Stomach upset/weight gain

Our general health can be affected if we continue to feel distress over a long period of time.  We can develop problems such as:

• Depression
• Heart disease/High blood pressure
• Anxiety
• Psychosomatic problems (Physical problems with the body) 

1. General Principles of managing stress

Keep fit, happy and well. A healthy body makes it much easier to cope with stress.

• Take regular exercise
• Eat a balanced, healthy diet
• Get enough sleep

Reduce artificial stimulation

• Limit your intake of tea/coffee/caffeinated drinks
• Don’t overeat-especially on chocolate
• Reduce intake of alcohol and tobacco
• Avoid street drugs, sleeping tablets or ‘tranquillizers’

Know yourself

• Recognize your limits
• Avoid doing several things at a time
• Avoid taking on more tasks
• Have the courage to say ‘no’ when things are too much

Find ways to enjoy yourself. We all need variety and changes from the routine to make life more interesting.

• Be kind to yourself. Treat yourself to extra-long bath/massage
• Pursues hobbies and leisure activities
• Relaxation: get time to unwind and relax

2. Identify Stressors

• Write down the things that cause you stress or the things you are worried about
• Look at each one and consider if there something you can do to change the stressor or change the amount of stress it causes you
• Where possible get away from the situation that causes you stress
• If you cannot change the situation, try the following techniques

3. Specific Techniques

• Breathing: Start by breathing slowly and deeply. Breathe in through your nose for count of three, allowing your lungs to fill up your tummy to rise. Then breathe out through your mouth for the count of three
• Relaxation: Muscle relaxation - tense and relax various muscle groups. Try your neck/shoulders and foreheads/eyes. Combine with deep breathing so that you inhale when you tense your muscles and exhale when you relax them. Take deep slow breaths. Throughout the day become aware of how tense your body is and try this exercise

     Routines

• Become used to going to places or doing things that make you feel anxious. The body   and mind will gradually adapt as you become familiar with the activity or place and the level of anxiety will reduce  

Visualization

Imagine a peaceful scene such as lying on beach, walking in the forest, sitting by a river, Try to use all your senses-imagine what you can see/hear/smell/touch/taste

Setting priorities

Make a list of the things you have to do. Decide which ones are most important and which are less important. Work out how much time you have and decide what you can realistically do in the allotted time. Leave the other tasks to another day. Try to manage your time/work realistically.

                                                                                         OLATUNDE IBIRONKE

                                                                                          & JOHN IKOT  

Drawing Mental Illness: A Visual Diary by Bobby Baker

Mental illness is still very much a taboo subject; in part, this is because the experience of it can be very challenging to articulate. For performance artist Bobby Baker, when she was diagnosed with borderline personality disorder in 1996, she set out to capture her experience and her journey to recovery in 711 drawings that would serve as her private catharsis over the course of more than a decade. 

 

Some of her work can be seen by clicking on this link. 

What can you do to make a difference

What can you do to make the difference?

If your friend had a broken leg, or he or she had just come out of hospital after an operation, you probably wouldn't think twice about asking how they were. Anyone can experience a mental health problem, so being able to talk about it is important to us all.

You don't need to be an expert about mental health though. Sometimes, just doing the little things, like asking someone how they are, is all it takes to let someone know you're still thinking about them and make a big difference to how they're feeling.

If someone you know has experience of mental illness, these are some of the things you can do to support them:

• Carry on as normal – just be the family member, friend or colleague you’ve always been and stay in touch.
• Offer practical support, help and understanding.
• Educate yourself about mental health and wellbeing.
• Use positive and encouraging language when talking about mental illness.
• Value and respect the person’s decisions about his or her mental wellbeing.
• Talk about the future, make plans to do things together.
• And speak up if your family member, friend or anyone you see is being treated unfairly.

For Nigeria's mentally ill, the cure can be worst than the disease

In Nigeria, the mentally ill have little more than faith on their side.

Original article on Slate and on Roads+Kingdoms

By Rowan Moore Gerety

Nigerian spiritual healer Al-Hajji Mojeed with a patient at the offices of his Olaiya Naturalist Hospital in Ibadan, Nigeria.

Photo by Rowan Moore Gerety

IBADAN, Nigeria—Al-Hajji Mojeed thinks of himself as a reformer. After he welcomed me to the offices of his Olaiya Naturalist Hospital in Ibadan, Nigeria, he led me to a small, windowless room where a patient was shackled to a rusty engine block, recovering, as Mojeed put it, from “head surgery.” Three days earlier, Mojeed had used a razor blade to make a long incision in the patient’s scalp, then filled the gash with herbs in order to allow malevolent spirits to escape through the wound.

The room was the last in a row of cubbyhole-like shops that sit in front of Mojeed’s house, concrete painted sea-green, with double doors cut from the walls of shipping containers. Mojeed’s wife operates a hair salon in one of the rooms, small general stores rent two rooms in the middle, and at the other end of the row, Mojeed keeps a small office lined with shelves of herbal concoctions in recycled plastic water bottles.

Back in his room, Mojeed’s patient was sprawled out on a mat across the entrance, using his arms to shield his head as he slept. A chain around both ankles left him enough slack to sit up and face the street or to turn and lean against the wall. Beside him, his mother sat silently, smiling. She planned to stay with her son at Mojeed’s hospital for the next two months.

According to Mojeed, spirits had haunted the man periodically for 12 years. Before the surgery, he was hostile and violent. When his family delivered him into Mojeed’s care, they brought him with his hands and feet bound with rope. The patient had been cursed by debtors in a business deal gone bad, Mojeed said, and his family had taken him to a series of spiritual healers with no change for the better. Standing in the doorway, Mojeed was ready to declare the surgery a success. “That is why he is sleeping,” Mojeed said. “The medicine is taking effect.”

A mentally ill patient shackled to an engine block at the Olaiya Naturalist Hospital in Ibadan, Nigeria.

Photo by Rowan Moore Gerety

Professional psychiatric care is basically inaccessible for most Nigerians with psychosis, a term used to describe a broad range of conditions that involve some disconnect from reality, including schizophrenia and bipolar disorder. Fewer than 200 psychiatrists work in a country of 168 million, and since Nigerians usually consider psychosis a supernatural affliction, psychiatrists are rarely seen first, if at all.

Increase Adeosun, a psychiatrist who manages intake at Nigeria’s largest psychiatric hospital, says patients usually only turn up there when the symptoms have reached a “melting point, when every other [option] has failed.” Most have already put in long stints at churches and mosques—where they are often subjected to fasting and periods of isolation—or in centers run by traditional healers. Flogging and shackling patients is sometimes practiced at all three. The clinical rule of thumb for psychotic disorders, meanwhile, is “the shorter the onset, the better the prognosis,” Adeosun says. As a result, psychiatrists typically find themselves treating the “treatment” as well as the illness, with many patients suffering from symptoms that have been exacerbated by the work of other healers.

But spiritualists like Mojeed represent the only consistent frontline psychiatric care in Nigeria. Whether they’re Christians, Muslims, or animist complementary providers (medical jargon for traditional and faith healers), they are present in nearly every community in the country. In Ibadan, Nigeria’s second-largest city, a single Muslim healer operates a facility that houses twice as many patients as the only psychiatric ward in town. For Nigeria’s medical professionals, the trick is to convince spiritual healers to modify their treatments and even refer some cases to clinical doctors. If that type of collaboration happened on a large scale, it could transform the prognosis for thousands of people suffering from acute mental illnesses.

That’s exactly the cooperation that Ibadan psychiatrist Oye Gureje is hoping to encourage. He’s the principal investigator of a six-country research project called the Partnership for Mental Health Development in Sub-Saharan Africa. Gureje says that the goal of the program, which is funded by the U.S.-based National Institutes of Health, is to design a collaborative “shared care” program between professional psychiatrists and traditional healers. The hope is to spare patients from the most harmful practices, and ideally have some referred to specialists for treatment sooner rather than later. African medical literature is rich with studies on how both patients and practitioners view mental illness and its causes, but this is the first research project devoted to evaluating the feasibility and benefits of psychiatrists and traditional healers practicing in tandem. “We don’t really know how it will work,” says Gureje. “We just have to wait and see.”

It’s clear that Gureje would like to see the traditional healers phased out immediately. But he has to be more pragmatic. “It will be decades before we have enough psychiatrists in Nigeria to meet the need. Until we’re able to convince people that their worldview is wrong, that there is no supernatural causation of mental illness, these people are going to be patronized,” says Gureje. “If that is the case, what can we do to make their practice less harmful, to make it beneficial to patients?”

For his part, Mojeed seems like an unlikely candidate for compromise. Although the head surgeries he performs are technically illegal, he believes in the procedure and views Western medicine as ineffective against psychosis. There may be physical causes for anxiety and depression, but psychosis, Mojeed explained using a Quranic term for spirits, is caused by “djinns taking over a person’s mind.”

He used a razor blade to make a long incision in the patient’s scalp, then filled the gash with herbs so malevolent spirits could escape the wound.

Where psychiatrists see cycles of remission and relapse, traditional healers see the failure of Western medicine. “The treatment at UCH doesn’t reach the brain,” Mojeed said, referring to the University College Hospital of Ibadan. “It only manages, never heals.” His consultation room is decorated with local news clippings heralding outright cures against the odds: “Madwoman completely healed after 21 years,” one reads. Since 1997, Mojeed has run an association called Atorise—in Yoruba, the name means “repairer of heads”—organizing the ranks of Ibadan’s traditional mental health practitioners with an eye toward proving their legitimacy to the Nigerian medical establishment. Last year, Mojeed suggested that the university hospital should refer patients to him they are unable to cure, a proposition he says they rejected out of hand.

As horrifying as Mojeed’s methods may sound, he is considered more progressive than most. Wole Adejayan, a researcher at UCH, says Mojeed stands out among dozens of traditional healers for his efforts to temper the methods used by his colleagues. Through Atorise, Adejayan says Mojeed has argued against beating or withholding food from patients. His facility is one of only a handful that requires the presence of a caretaker alongside the patient for the duration of the treatment.

Indeed, a few decades ago, techniques performed in U.S. asylums were every bit as cruel. A 1946 article in Life describes life-threatening beatings routinely visited on inmates of psychiatric hospitals by their attendants, as well as long periods of confinement in dank cells where patients slept on the ground and wore thick leather handcuffs. Three years later, in 1949, a Portuguese neurologist won the Nobel Prize for developing the lobotomy—a procedure no doctor today would recommend. Insulin shock therapy, designed to induce a comalike state in schizophrenic patients, was common in the United States through the 1950s.

Most Nigerians have little choice but to visit a spiritual healer for psychiatric care.

Photo by Rowan Moore Gerety

Mojeed remains leery of participating in collaborative treatment for psychosis. His concern is actually based on medicine; he’s worried about the possibility of negative interactions between pharmaceutical drugs and the sedative, plant-based concoctions he gives his patients. Unless, that is, it could be done sequentially by making referrals when one form of treatment proves ineffective. In that case, he said, “If the government will provide shelter and food for patients, members of Atorise will provide our services for free.”

Other faith healers are similarly open-minded. In Ibadan, I spoke to a pharmacist who says he periodically sells Largactil—the anti-psychotic chlorpromazine—to robe-wearing pastors who administer the drugs dissolved as a cocktail in a glass of holy water.

One problem, as with so much in Nigeria, is money. Psychiatric treatment is expensive, and even the government can’t always pay its hospital bills. In July, when Ogun State’s funds were tight, officials stopped sending homeless patients with severe mental illness to a more expensive government-run psychiatric hospital, instead opting for Ademola Mental Hospital. Ademola is a traditional healing center that practices diagnosis by incantation, reciting verses to invoke the presence of gods responsible for mental illness. When I visited in the middle of October, two patients were chained to pillars on the front porch.

It’s hard not to see psychiatric hospitals and traditional healers remaining in direct competition. For now, though, it’s the psychiatrists whose livelihood seems most uncertain. Last month, residents in Nigeria’s public hospitals went on strike for more than three weeks; some doctors hadn’t been paid in more than four months. Most patients were left to look elsewhere for treatment.

This story was made possible by a grant from the International Reporting Project (IRP).

A message from President of Reconnect HDI

A message from our president

I see a vision that one day mentally ill people in Nigeria will have a voice , that stigmatisation of the mentally ill will be frowned upon and that both the public and private sectors will put resources towards supporting  sufferers and families of mentally ill people. I see a future when society will see people addicted to substances as requiring treatment and support rather than punishment.

Our youth are now faced with the menace of drug abuse. They are our future. Should we sleep and watch this cancer eat up our society?  We need strategies focused on prevention.I desire a complete reconnection and reintegration of the mentally ill with the rest of society.I uphold the principles of Equality and access to health services.

My understanding of the needs of the mentally ill and the holistic nature of the treatment required compared to the dearth of resources available in Nigeria for our people has grown an insatiable appetite to support on-going initiatives for a better life for the mentally ill. It will be my joy to wipe the tears off the eyes of those families who live with sufferers of mental illness.

A friend once told me of a brother of his who had become very rich and residing in America. I asked him, how many people his brother has unconditionally cared for. Do we see ourselves as conduits through which resources are channeled to the less privileged? When we say we are very rich could it mean we are holding onto the wealth of some others?

The Good Samaritan did the best he could to “care for someone else” People with religious positions walked by but did not care. Do we care? Some religious communities of today lack selfless carers. Do we only care for relatives, friends and those that will sing our praises? Do we understand why it is important to support NGOs/charities?  Jesus, at his time of death, despite his pain was caring and praying for the person next to him. 

I pray for the grace of God as Reconnect commences the journey towards “seeking a better tomorrow” for the mentally ill, the substance abuser and their families”

Dr. Vincent Udenze