Simple ways of coping with stress
SIMPLE WAYS OF COPING WITH STRESS
Modern life is full of demands, deadlines and frustrations. Stress has become a way of life for many people. Stress is simply a reaction to a stimulus that disturbs our physical or mental equilibrium. It describes how our bodies respond to the demands placed on them. Our bodies may respond physically, emotionally or psychologically. The demands or (stressors) may be external such as work and relationships, or internal such as thoughts about ourselves and expectations we place upon ourselves. Stress is not always bad.A little bit of stress, known as “acute stress,” can be exciting—it keeps us active and alert. But long-term, or “chronic stress,” can have detrimental effects on health. We can protect ourselves by recognizing the signs and symptoms of stress and taking steps to reduce its harmful effects.
Why do we experience stress?
When we are under stress our bodies produce a chemical called adrenaline. This prepares the body for what is known as ‘fight or flight ‘response. The body is ready to fight if it is faced with real physical danger or run away from the danger or stand and fight. There is no immediate danger to ourselves when we feel stressed but the adrenaline is still released into the blood stream and gears us up for immediate action. It stimulates the heart to beat faster and re-directs blood to the brain, heart and muscle. As the blood is rapidly pumped around the body, our blood pressure rises. It causes the liver to release sugar and fat into the blood stream and gives us instant energy.
Causes of Stress
- Job: overworking, colleagues, meeting deadlines
- Family changes: birth, death, marriage, divorce, relationship breakdown
- Family Life: relationship problems, children, elderly relatives, financial worries
- Environment: noise, pollution, overcrowding, bad working conditions, relocation
- Nutrition: unbalanced diet, too much caffeine, excessive alcohol/tobacco
- Social factors: unemployment, racism, bullying, discrimination
Symptoms of Stress
If we have too much stress, we feel distressed and may develop a number of symptoms or stress indicators. There may be some warning signs, such as:
Cognitive Symptoms
Memory problems
Inability to concentrate
Poor judgment
Seeing only the negative
Anxious or racing thoughts
Constant worrying
Physical Symptoms
Aches and pains
Diarrhea or constipation
Nausea, dizziness
Chest pain, rapid heartbeat
Loss of sex drive
Frequent colds
|
Emotional Symptoms
Moodiness
Irritability or short temper
Agitation, inability to relax
Feeling overwhelmed
Sense of loneliness and isolation
Depression or general unhappiness
Behavioral Symptoms
Eating more or less
Sleeping too much or too little
Isolating yourself from others
Procrastination
Using alcohol, cigarettes, or drugs to relax
Nervous habits (e.g. nail biting, pacing)
|
We begin to experience other indicators of stress as the stress continues e.g.
- Irritability/impatience
- Headaches/backache
- Fatigue/tiredness
- Tearfulness
- Forgetfulness
- Social withdrawal
- Stomach upset/weight gain
Our general health can be affected if we continue to feel distress over a long period of time. We can develop problems such as:
- Depression
- Heart disease/High blood pressure
- Anxiety
- Psychosomatic problems (Physical problems with the body)
- General Principles of managing stress
Keep fit, happy and well. A healthy body makes it much easier to cope with stress.
- Take regular exercise
- Eat a balanced, healthy diet
- Get enough sleep
Reduce artificial stimulation
- Limit your intake of tea/coffee/caffeinated drinks
- Don’t overeat-especially on chocolate
- Reduce intake of alcohol and tobacco
- Avoid street drugs, sleeping tablets or ‘tranquillizers’
Know yourself
- Recognize your limits
- Avoid doing several things at a time
- Avoid taking on more tasks
- Have the courage to say ‘no’ when things are too much
Find ways to enjoy yourself. We all need variety and changes from the routine to make life more interesting.
- Be kind to yourself. Treat yourself to extra-long bath/massage
- Pursues hobbies and leisure activities
- Relaxation: get time to unwind and relax
- Identify Stressors
- Write down the things that cause you stress or the things you are worried about
- Look at each one and consider if there something you can do to change the stressor or change the amount of stress it causes you
- Where possible get away from the situation that causes you stress
- If you cannot change the situation, try the following techniques
- Specific Techniques
- Breathing: Start by breathing slowly and deeply. Breathe in through your nose for count of three, allowing your lungs to fill up your tummy to rise. Then breathe out through your mouth for the count of three
- Relaxation: Muscle relaxation - tense and relax various muscle groups. Try your neck/shoulders and foreheads/eyes. Combine with deep breathing so that you inhale when you tense your muscles and exhale when you relax them. Take deep slow breaths. Throughout the day become aware of how tense your body is and try this exercise
Routines
- Become used to going to places or doing things that make you feel anxious. The body and mind will gradually adapt as you become familiar with the activity or place and the level of anxiety will reduce
Visualization
Imagine a peaceful scene such as lying on beach, walking in the forest, sitting by a river, Try to use all your senses-imagine what you can see/hear/smell/touch/taste
Setting priorities
Make a list of the things you have to do. Decide which ones are most important and which are less important. Work out how much time you have and decide what you can realistically do in the allotted time. Leave the other tasks to another day. Try to manage your time/work realistically.
OLATUNDE IBIRONKE
& JOHN IKOT
No comments:
Post a Comment